Hey folks. I have been and will be a bit incommunicado for a few days because I drove up (11 hours!) to spend Thanksgiving with my family at the beach. It is 26 degrees out (that is Fahrenheit) and windy, the coldest Thanksgiving of my lifetime.

However, honestly, I feel a much joy and gratitude today which warms my heart. I appreciate and am grateful for all the experiences I have been lucky enough to have and even more so for the amazing people who have come into my life. I am incredibly grateful for all the advice and support (and 2x4s) that I received on this anonymous online forum. Thanks to all of you for helping me through the most difficult stretch of my life. It amazes me how much love and care one can feel for a virtual presence, a digital silhouette of a person, but the feelings are real.

May you all have a wonderful day!


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019