paco, welcome to the board. Sorry you're here but there are many here that can help you and related to you.

I can tell you're a deep thinker. However, I should caution you that these things tend to be a lot simpler than all you've started. For instance, women don't need to live separate to figure things out. They need to live separate to be with other people. While the sitches themselves tend to be complex the reasons walk aways do what they do are pretty simple.

Please take a deep breath, step back, and just try to relax. Please read all of cadets links. There is s lot of wisdom in those links. Also, concentrate on what you can control. At that is yourself. GAL. 180s. Detachment. Be the best Paco you can be.

I'd also get out of MC for now. She going through the motions. Probably just to appease your kids. Classic WAW behavior.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018