she wants full custody as well and has stated it. I slept on it and know that she is in crazy land. I want full custody but would settle for 50/50 plus restraining order for OM. I dont want her to know my intentions because it would mean immediate temp orders. she told me she already fears i will do something vindictive but she knows I have a case too. Protecting my kids from scum is doing what's best for them, but in her mind she doesnt see it that way. I have to play any move very carefully.