I already got legal advice and the bank account thing is ok for me to do. If something is late or payment missed a judge may not like that though.
Her behavior is exactly as replay round 1 with 30% the intensity. Shes never been happy, I am a messy person, I forget things. Basically it is too late to make up for the emotional support I lacked for 10 years.
Also, she feels no remorse for what she is doing because she checked out and we have D on file. She is only sorry that it hurts me.