Ah yes - the p!ssed/sad look. I remember that well. Also the disgust.

To flip this over, "she's not the boss of you". As far as I can tell you are doing nothing illegal. While you may be controlling access to certain marital assets you aren't dissipating them.

This is where you need to get legal advice. Don't divide anything up, nor agree to anything prior to that.

The next while will probably be tough as you can expect tantrums and manipulation. Know where your buttons are and cover them.

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