DV6 & FS,
I am of the opposite opinion of you ladies. I think a child needs both parents in their life. I think 50/50 is the best option for children. Little boys and little girls need a strong Male role model (preferably Dad) as well as their Mom. Now if both your H want 50/50 I would say let them, with some caveats. I don't think you should have to rearrange your schedule for 50/50 as in the case of FS and her H's job, he is just going to have to become more flexible or change careers, not FS problem. I would also think that now would be a good time for your H to man up, grow a pair, and take care of his freaking kids, as is the case with DV6. Absentee Dad is BS, and I feel bad that you have had to deal with it DV6.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19