DV6 & FS, I am of the opposite opinion of you ladies. I think a child needs both parents in their life. I think 50/50 is the best option for children. Little boys and little girls need a strong Male role model (preferably Dad) as well as their Mom. Now if both your H want 50/50 I would say let them, with some caveats. I don't think you should have to rearrange your schedule for 50/50 as in the case of FS and her H's job, he is just going to have to become more flexible or change careers, not FS problem. I would also think that now would be a good time for your H to man up, grow a pair, and take care of his freaking kids, as is the case with DV6. Absentee Dad is BS, and I feel bad that you have had to deal with it DV6.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19