Also, please heed these words by burned: "And anyway, believe nothing they say." "Water off a duck." Her words are useless. They are based on emotions. And her emotions change from one minute to the next. My WW used to say all the time "when I say something it is how I feel at that moment. But that can be different 5 minutes later." Why? Because she knew what she was saying was illogical, didn't make sense, and was contradictory to other things she had said
This one baffled me for a long time before finding this sight. It still is crazy to me how contradictory a 5 minute conversation with W could be. Nothing that has ever been said about the sitch from W has ever made any sense, the convo would usually start with a complaint of some sort or a request on what she needed but two minutes later was completely opposite. Now that I am really working on not believing any of it I feel more at peace with my role in the M.
