Gerda

So glad you invited a crowd over for Thanksgiving

That is a blessing from you to them and vice versa

Yes w introduced OM to kids and it was then I had to address it

As you can guess I used few words

I spoke to each one on one



I want you to know I love your mom

However I believe that marriage is between two people

Until death do we part

And mom is in a relationship with OM

Therefore we cannot remain married

This is not what I want

And I want you to know that this has nothing to do with you

While our living arrangements will change

I will always love you and be there for you


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving