Thanks all for the support and advice I really appreciate it. Yesterday, I took the kids to school whilst a relative stayed at my home. Whilst I was gone W was caught entering the house. W lied saying that she urgently needed to talk to me about legal stuff. It was obviously BS she made up because she'd been caught and didn't expect anyone to be in the house because she knew I'd be out with the kids at that time. She left right away. I've thought for a while that she might have been bugging the house, knew my legal correspondence etc. in advance. It got so bad that I had to take calls in the garden. Now I realise that she's been coming into the house when she knows I'm not there and would have seen documents etc.

I feel sad that the mother of my kids is sinking so low and she's telling lots of outrageous lies in her statement for the next custody court date making me out to be a bad person, yet just about everyone believes her because she appears to be nice.