Thanks AS. My H texted me about 30 minutes ago apologizing for not responding to my text with the volleyball schedule and said that he had but it looked like it didn’t go through. No mention of the email. Also let me know that he has to work late for parent-teacher night. He’s terrible at math but if he has calculated what he will have to pay and what he will have remaining, it is enough to live on but he has probably figured out he won’t be living the high life, that is for sure. Our kids have some learning needs that have been addressed with expensive professionals to the tune of $1,400 a month so on top of child support, he has to pay half of those expenses as well. It is pretty much equivalent to what our mortgage payment used to be. I don’t think he was expecting that at all. He has never given one thought to finances before. That has been my department. Financially we were home free until he did this to us. In a way, I am glad he is getting a dose of reality now and I still feel strong and at peace with dropping the rope.
