Risen from the ashes

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I get the laughter. Just wondering - do you think she got pregnant on purpose to "seal the deal" with OM? And perhaps originally with you as well? Mind you, most unplanned pregnancies are just that - unplanned - and no method of birth control short of a hysterectomy is 100% foolproof. But just finding the timing a bot oddly similar to your early relationship with her.

Glad that things in your life are going well, that you are taking a positive pro-active approach to life and that your new GF appreciates that and is on board as well.

Well, that's not what I thought or laughed about. But I have no clue. Hopefully not because that's a completely wrong reason to get pregnant. She's not too old for waiting either, as ~one year just seems way too fast for me. Quite a lot of women get their first born at over 30 and she's only turning 30 next year. She told me about a year before BD that OM said they (OM and his ex) would never want to have kids, but certainly people's opinions do change - sometimes quite quickly. So... who knows. I am just a bit scared that my kids get less attention as D craves it and S is still so young. I personally want one more kid but certainly not that fast and I am not currently planning for it.

Glad to read what you wrote L! So gf and the girls had a good time together. Good man. Enjoy your present.

See you soon man!

Thanks N! Life is certainly smiling right now. Appreciate the comments.