Gerda, I decided to respond to you here instead of hijacking Gordie's thread. I'm glad that you are still trying to stay focused on RMM ideas and techniques...ie. prayer and patience.

I truly believe that things can miraculously change, but we have to have the patience to wait on His timing.

This whole MLC thing is strange and confusing for sure, but putting that all aside, we must find all of the things in our current life that we are thankful and grateful for and give thanks for that. Even though we are enduring this MLC thing, we could all be in much worse situations.

I am happy and thankful for the health of my children.

I am happy and thankful that God has shown me that I can be a patient man and that I can wait for what He has in store for me.

I am happy and thankful that my brothers marriages and families are stronger now that they have seen me stand for mine.

I am thankful for you that you are a ray of hope here on these boards. You give hope to those who are struggling even though you are struggling also. You are a Saint.

May God bless you this thanksgiving!!!


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!