I am so happy to see that you will have a houseful of people for Thanksgiving. All of you will enjoy the weekend.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
P.S. I removed your reference on another thread where you referenced a name of someone who has a site that deals w/the same issues as this forum.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.