They do not need your w --NOT as she is today the crises can ;last for many many years and they do not need an unstable parent and her crazy abusive OW
they need you-
I get your sadness that they may lose her for good- but your W is doing the right thing to let them go and she knows she is sick she does not want the responsibility --let her go--she has to hit way down to the oceans floor b4 she can recover if ever- And because the crises is sooo long --the kids will most likely be grown b4 you see any progress in your w
let her go--
If It were me, I would absolutely speak to GAL and let them know you are more than prepared and capable to take this on- as person with sole custody God will open doors and make all things available for you to raise these kids on your own
Ive seen that in my life hold strong
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow