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there is a lot to deal with here

One main point above the others may be to protect the kids-
If he is a loser and has a history of domestic issues -- you have to think about the kids

The M may be over, but the impact of all this on the kids can be handled for their highest and best good for them
This will have to come from you
as usually the MLCer is a terrible parent

They will put young children in harms way to pursue their fantasy life

they usually always pick losers-This is not unusual

MY XH chose his secretary, 14 years younger, prescription addict/ psych issues
together they hit the lowest of bottoms-
He lost every single thing he had-and he had a lot at one point-
My kids Never met her-and both my kids are doing well


You may need to put some focus on the best strategies to keep kids safe

they are too young to protect themselves


Glad you transferred the money and watch all credit cards
they will rack up debt any way they can with no thought of the future


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow