Originally Posted by Living
My therapist says I need to have a long talk with him and see what he wants to do about the marriage.
I believe that R talk is the last thing you should do. R talk is good when both people are fully committed. There will be time for talking later if you get through this most difficult part of the process. Your job right now is to listen to him when he brings up R.

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The crazy thing is I can see signs of the man I fell in love with showing up.
This is a good sign what you are doing is working.

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I can say without a doubt that there is no way in hell we can resume this marriage without resolving some major issues.
These are your non-negotiables...

Not sure if I shared my book list:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2061094#Post2061094

Harville hendrix might be a good book for you.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712