Re: the quote on FB - I feel that folks who post those as a general rule do it as a passive aggressive or emo-angsty cry of "look at ME I'm having so much INSIGHT and FEELING. Ask me what's going on that's so dramatic in my life". Sorry if that's a bit negative to folks who might post lots of positive or inspirational quotes or memes on FB or social media. I just think we all know that some people post these only for attention. So in asking from the very neutral space you did, it was still some kind of asking about where she is emotionally, and it might have been perceived as pressure.
Perhaps I'm reading wrong, but my two cents. I am also watching people post this kind of meme on FB, and they're people I know that are going through some [censored] in their life. For them, it's definitely a cry for attention.
