Not sure DB is working? AnotherStander help!

[Jlh]

I just don't get these mood swings of his. He can hate me or whatever, because he sure seems to even though I have no idea what I did, but to confuse our son is too much. He wanted our boy to call him when he wanted to talk, so last night I called for him to talk and H doesn't pick up the phone or return the call. I just dont get this new mood addition to his behavior.

He comes by the house, takes extra folding chairs for thanksgiving with his family, yet wont come up to our bedroom and take the rest of his personal things. My divorce lawyer contacted me via email and wants to meet up with him, H and his own attorney over financial stuff.

I just cant figure this attitude and nastiness. I told him to get our son ready to go to his place (instead of me always doing it while he just sits on the stairs and pouts) and you'd think I insulted him.

I do great most days but some days especially now I guess since the holidays are starting I feel lonely, miss my old husband who wasn't this mean monster, and I cant stop crying. I'm mad at myself because I was doing so well with meeting new people at my son's school, working hard at work, talking with friends and talking to my therapist.

I don't know how people wait this crap out even with detaching, more power too them.