Originally Posted by Hamburg
I discover EA still intact in Oct, we become "friends".

WTF? Why do you want to be friends with a cheater?

Originally Posted by Hamburg
We are not talking, she welcomed me into the guest room and has no problem with me staying there.

WTF? Why are you staying in the guestroom. Why are you not in the master bedroom?

You say you spelled out the terms of the D. What are they?

You are exhibiting weak and submissive behavior which will get you zero respect from your W who is in an affair. How can you change that immediately?