Summary EA begins in early 2018. W drops bomb in July, we reconcile in Sept, I discover EA still intact in Oct, we become "friends". Over the past weekend I had PI follow her and have audio and video of EA turned PA (making out). I leave house sun, return mon and she says she wants to end marriage. I spell put terms.
Now facing D. We are not talking, she welcomed me into the guest room and has no problem with me staying there. House on market, realtor ok with dropping to minimum price to get out of it. Says it will prob sell at right price even in slow season.
Part of me wants to go all out (I would likely be able to get full custody). Another part wants to go dark, stay in the background and see what happens.