OK, ICs do have an ethical responsibility to provide the treatment (or advice) that is in the best interest of their client, as an individual human who may or may not be in a R. And there's risk involved in telling someone to stay in a R if there's a concern that they are being mistreated/abused. But ICs can only work with what they're given, i.e., what the WW is telling them, which is probably total garbage. Net result: fanning the flames. [Long before I knew about DB and WW, my W was saying things like, "IC has been teaching me to listen to my feelings." Barf.]
The point is, if WW can manipulate her H, she can certainly manipulate her IC.
Agree with B
We go to IC to help ourselves. So W can manipulate IC but it’s IC job to get that out. And they do. So you give garbage to IC and IC will sometime in the process just take your garbage away. When that happens you start to conciously get into your real problems, the ground of your feelings. But you need time and commitment to accomplish that. It’s always easier to break away. But no matter how much you run your demons will be there with you. Mine lived inside my pillow, most of them are gone now, a few remain there. I must face them sooner or later.
