What neffer said....I am living IHS and I said this is driving me nuts...so what did I do? I got out of the house every second I could after taking care of my fatherly duties. Don't wait around to see what W will be doing. I will be honest W has asked me to do more things lately and I have obliged at times. But the crazy thing is she demanded her independence for so long during these last 6 or 7 months and I fought it at first but now that I have been enjoying mine I see her pulling back in. I actually want her to be away more often!
I am so relieved that I have finally been able to detach. It is a huge weight off my shoulders and somewhat sad at the same time that I do not have the emotional bond with my W of 18 years anymore. But I am better off and you will be too, find yourself, push through.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
