Remember that W also must go through a process herself. She needs to find herself too. Find the real W, the former one. What does she need? Time and space. It’s hard to achieve that on an in-house separation. Try to give her that. How? Get out and GAL. She started asking MR questions. It’s a step taken. So, control expectations and go GAL.
A marathon...remember? Breathe, breathe, keep the pace.