Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage pt2

[SoTorn]

So WW came and knocked on my door saying she needed to talk about finances again. I opened the door to see if she would actually just talk about that.

Nope, first thing out of her mouth is "you sure made sure this isn't repairable"

I tried to stop her but she just tirades into how I need to leave, it's my fault the kids hate her, it's my fault we cant fix this, the judge will make me move out, etc. I again told her that I will not discuss anything with her if she is blaming me for this situation. I again told her that I do not want divorce, and cannot stop her, but I will not help her destroy this family completely.

WW then said "how could I sit and have dinner with your family now that they know this"

I told WW that just because her family is quick to try and choose sides and manipulate the kids, my family can see past the situation, they still love her and that they are there to support us and even just her, should she need it.

So in a nutshell, WW has made zero progress. WW is still in protect thyself mode and cant see beyond that.

I am leaving the house now. These one sided conversations are so draining and pointless. WW still thinks I'm out to get her.