I got a call from SIL on Saturday. Then again SIL called yesterday. I didn't answer or return either b/c she has lied to me several times on important issues over the years, she supported W's affair, and she sympathized with the affair partner and threw me under the bus. She told W to file for divorce and bring OM to her parents for a holiday weekend. I know all of this through text messages on W's phone back in July and August/September. So I don't really have anything to say to SIL right now.
W asked me to talk to SIL both last night and this morning. I avoided talking to W about it last night, and this morning told her no. SIL is calling in regards to a question in my professional field, but she could get this info from anyone. So now FIL calls me to ask me to call SIL. I told him I can't help her, I'm not licensed in her state anymore, and that anything between us is between me and SIL. I guess I don't understand the family pressure tactic or why SIL would even want to ask me these things. Maybe things need to be aired out with W's family.
Also I'm annoyed at the in laws family yacking like crazy. Which is one reason I hate to say to much to W, because then her whole family knows. My question is how do I handle this?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
