Wheels turning with the D have to do with evidence now she violated terms of the M. It crossed a boundary for me, and I cannot live on a M that way. I mean, plotting things for a month from now behind my back? Np bueno. At first I was angry and wanted depositions , I was going to kick her to the curb jobless and without a place to go. Looking at her face and at my children I cannot do that. I initially wanted out of the house by whatever means necessary and was willing to sell it rock bottom. Now that I've had time to think I want to give her a chance to find a job and get through the holidays with all of us under the same roof. It may not be glamorous but want the kids to have pleasant memories of our last christmas together.
