Living - I'm with you. My W is the same type of person your H seems to be in their MLC. Too kind. Lost. "Sorry" (but not really meaning it yet). Saying that we deserve better (because we do, and they kind-of know that, but perhaps only logically)
You've been doing an awesome job at validating and working on detachment. I have a lot to learn from you! I know a lot of folks on these forums are dealing with spouse craziness of a different beast, but you and I are fighting the same type of beast in this moment. It's the kindness that's hard to side-step, because you can't really argue with them, but you still know they're not sincere.
OMG yes to all of this. You get it! The kindness is kind of weird to me. To be honest, I didn稚 expect him to react the way he has after I detached and started GAL. I guess I expected him to notice but I didn稚 expect him to start telling me he loves me daily and to pursue me as much as he has. I値l be honest, some days it cracks me up. I値l ignore his text messages and he has a tough time dealing with that.
I appreciate your compliment on how I知 handling things. You値l get there, trust me it is so hard. I may make it sound easy but it痴 hard for sure. I will say this, I know my worth and I知 glad I知 back at not accepting anything less than what I知 worth. So if he truly wants me back, he better buckle up because he痴 in for a bumpy ride. Truth is my husband is seeing a side of me that he痴 never seen. I know this side of me exists but he痴 never seen it and I think that may be scaring him a bit. He keeps saying that he is finding it hard to let me go.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
