Living - I'm with you. My W is the same type of person your H seems to be in their MLC. Too kind. Lost. "Sorry" (but not really meaning it yet). Saying that we deserve better (because we do, and they kind-of know that, but perhaps only logically)
You've been doing an awesome job at validating and working on detachment. I have a lot to learn from you! I know a lot of folks on these forums are dealing with spouse craziness of a different beast, but you and I are fighting the same type of beast in this moment. It's the kindness that's hard to side-step, because you can't really argue with them, but you still know they're not sincere.
