Thanks. Round 1 of replay was dynamic, explosive and hateful. She had full control of things and I was pursuing. Then we reconciled for a month. Round 2 seems so much more calm and cool....at least for now. I have control and told her how the D will work. I am not pursuing. I have grown and can handle the threats and daggers. I started to detach and she started to check out. When I told her I wouldn't be friends after the divorce she really began to check out. I started to GAL and it got to the point she was asking me who I was with and I would just reply "friends". I guess she took that as me having an A, throwing her back in to his arms.
Now she seems subdued and has a sad look on her face.....hopefully remorse. During round 1 she was energetic, hateful and took every chance to tell me how much better OM was then me and how great her life will be without me.
If we agree on terms the D can be final in a matter of days (filing was in July). I want to at least get through the holidays ... for the kids sake. I don't want them remembering christmas as the time we split as a family.
We had thanksgiving plans as a family but now I will take kids out myself.
