1. You are correct that she is a different person and your old M is dead. It can always be resurrected and rebuilt.
2. MLC take a long time...it is a marathon, not a sprint.
3. It is your choice whether or not to pull the trigger on the D, but it won't stop the love you have for your W.
4. Hope has no timeline.
5. We have to do what is right for ourselves to overcome the hurt and the pain. Will finalizing the D actually take away the hurt and the pain?
6. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 New International Version (NIV)
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!