Gord, I am planning on the same thing this year. The last two years have sucked when it came to my lack of decorating. I have always focused on the outside, while the ex would do the inside. 2 years ago she actually came to my house and decorated the tree with my daughter while I was at work. Last year my kids and I did it together. I want to try and let the space station see my lights this year. It is still tough that she still sees what she did as ok, but it is truly out of my control.

I want to hear from you that you and your kids light up the night sky with all of your lights. I pray that your wife is able to see the joy that this time of year is suppose to bring to families.

Quick question.......do you prefer colored outside lights or the plain white lights? How about the lights on the tree?


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!