1) S came home with scratches on his face yesterday from the pit bull that her roommates have.
2) W has been threatening to call CPS if I take S to the only sitter that I actually have access to.
3) W is saying now that she's going to take him out of daycare and put him in a different one (that's even more expensive) so that "he can be there when I need it and he can be with me the rest of the time.
4) W has admitted that she IS saving up for an attorney to try to either get out of the MSA or force me to let her out of it so she can take S back because "it's best for him" and "you aren't good enough to keep him".
5) Once again, she blamed my ADHD for the issues. She's trying to use any tactic she can to make me feel guilty. She demanded that I own up to my issues...again...and when I began to reiterate my part, she began cutting me off. She did this several times just screaming at me every time I started talking. When I got a second to ask her to let me finish she said "I have ADHD I can't help it". Then as soon as I would start talking, she would do it again. Another 5 times, and I'm starting to get flustered (this actually is a thing with ADHD people because she's forcing me NOT to get out any thoughts), I asked her "Please stop and let me say what you asked me to say..." she cut me off and screamed "I HAVE ADHD, HOW DARE YOU USE MY DISABILITY AGAINST ME." Basically just making fun of me. Yes, interrupting inadvertently is an ADHD effect, but she was doing it JUST to harass me, blatantly.
6) She DEMANDED after that that I say out loud "it's over". While I 100% recognize that it is, in fact, over in her mind, her doing all of those things and then demanding that I say it was literally just an attempt to have some kind of domineering power over me. So I took a deep breath, said "Look..." and she started the interrupting thing again. Over and over. When I said I was going to hang up, she started screaming at me and trying to force me to verbally say "it's over".
When this veered into clearly abusive territory, I figured that I need to move REALLY fast to lock in the MSA with a court order. DB or not, this isn't okay. So when I said I need to finish the fight, I meant specifically the custody battle, and get the D over with. I can DB the whole time, but I know that the longer I let this go on, the more she's going to attack me emotionally and try to use my medical issue against me.
