Yes I agree
having a plan, even a neighbor who can help
or a good teenager in the area will sometimes help out for little money

I used to have this older woman help with watching them when they were younger and a neighbor would get my 5 year old from the bus stop, so I could stay at work..

and as the kids get older this gets easier-
I also had little support raising my kids as my mom passed shortly after BD and my family is very good people but
also very busy with careers and live a distance-

Stay strong- breathe, meditate listen to Joel Olsteen
got to keep our minds clear and positive to promote best outcomes
and for you physical healing-

prayers with you-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow