Yes I agree having a plan, even a neighbor who can help or a good teenager in the area will sometimes help out for little money
I used to have this older woman help with watching them when they were younger and a neighbor would get my 5 year old from the bus stop, so I could stay at work..
and as the kids get older this gets easier- I also had little support raising my kids as my mom passed shortly after BD and my family is very good people but also very busy with careers and live a distance-
Stay strong- breathe, meditate listen to Joel Olsteen got to keep our minds clear and positive to promote best outcomes and for you physical healing-
prayers with you-
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