Uncertain phase of MLC

[peacetoday]

H


The only way you can really know what is going to happen is to watch and wait

While you are living together- it is most difficult

I use to wake up at 3am and notice my H was still not home

Many of us wait it out to some degree to see if the MLCer has an awakening
some DO and these still usually take time

The time we use waiting is never wasted
usually we are in therapy, in church or support groups learning about ourselves and what happened
Learning how we can best navigate our situation, learn and grow from it
and deal with our feelings of grief, hurt, and pain-

During the transition, we learn to best support the kids as they are hurting also-

We do things now, whatever seems best and many of us have NO regrets later-
We know we did all we could for our situation
Hang in