If your w is in some sort of EA or PA with OM then you are in a 3 way relationship
You only know what is going on with you
And you only see glimpses of what is going on with w
And you have no idea what is going on with OM
When my w would be all infatuated with OM
Then I was treated like garbage and told I had to leave immediately
And yes she was wedding planning
And then things would cool off with OM
And she would be nice again
This is why we say focus on you
You can only control you
If w is in MLC then she may be all over the place
And she may keep flip flopping
Day to day or month to month
Stay strong and steady
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving