1st time I was welcomed inside her place in 6 months. W first comments upon welcoming me in was how she thought I looked good. S was lounging with some Netflix show....no shoes, etc. I greeted him with a huge hug and then asked him to get shoes on so we could go.
S than says he has to take a #2.
W and I are then left alone.
W starts asking all sorts of questions as to who I’m hanging out with...what my plans are, etc. This is the 1st time GAL activities and “as if” methods have yielded results. I essentially had to divorce my entire friends/group since DB. I just say my church family has welcomed me in and I have embraced it. Didn’t provide any more details, etc.
W than asked to have exchange on Thanksgiving with S so he can see both of us. She then pulled a stunt in asking about S birthday party planning while S was present. I had conveyed that we wouldn’t be doing these events together. I just said to call me and we would discuss.
Upon leaving....I noticed she stayed at the window looking at us leaving.
Feel good in how I handled myself.
To the board...any advice?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
