W constantly blames me for my lack of drive to get things done (like dishes) as the thing that drove her away...she knows I have ADHD, she claims to understand how it works, but she STILL maintains that it's an excuse...yet since she's been away, I have been able to keep my apartment mostly clean (with the exception of toys...toys everywhere...)...yet she says that she still has moments where she can't clean and has hoarding tendencies...
SO yeah, I think you're right. This does sounds like she's still trying to blame/justify this stuff.
Dang. I was hoping she was getting past that part. Guess not.
It took me a little bit of reading and researching to make it click, but thank you.
