I don't think I would be looking for a reaction so much as I would be hoping for no reaction. I think if I took it off, my H would be relieved so not sure I want to give him that. Re: his ring. He hasn't worn one for most of our M. A stone fell out and he said it wasn't comfortable to wear and at times would be too small so he just stopped wearing it. My dad never wore a ring but was beyond committed. My brother too and my BIL. It's never really bothered me. But...I have never taken mine off except to sleep so it is a part of me - just like he is/was. So...no clear answer I suppose. I think I will just wear it until I feel strongly that I should take it off. I'm just not there yet.
You can try what I did and take it off but put it on a necklace and wear it. I did that for about a month or so then came to terms that my sitch was getting worse and detached from my ring completely.
