Question from my last thread... I am wondering if I should be taking my wedding ring off. It is the one thing I have really been resisting even though my H would be happy if I did. I think, for him, it would be a sign that I have given up on him and a green light to speed ahead towards D full throttle. I have significant internal conflict over sending out that kind of message..
DV6, That is something you are going to have to decide for yourself at your own pace. My ring has been off for 7 months now. As painful as it was taking it off, I knew that it needed to be done because I did not feel like I was married. Looking back, I have no regrets. Especially in light of the events that followed afterwards.
Look at it this way, you are detaching from your H. Removal of the ring is just a part of the process. Let it go. It does not mean you are giving up. Your rings can always be out back on. When it stands for something.
