So...now I am wondering about my wedding ring. I know my H would like me to take it off. That he would see it as a sign that I am accepting of the situation and losing hope of reconciliation. I look at it now and feel like I am outwardly lying to people about my status...pretending something is one way when it is not. But I have not been able to bring myself to take it off. I am still married legally and in my heart. But does this make me look weak or desperate? Should I take it off?
My H left his ring in a box on his dresser when he moved out. I never asked him about it, but sure noticed. I have never taken mine off, and don't plan to unless/until I am divorced. I had visions on taking it off at the divorce proceedings in sort of a ceremony. Who knows. Maybe as the weeks go on I'll feel differently, but for now, I'm married.
