Something to update on my sitch. XW is apparently pregnant for OM. Am I horrible as I bursted out laughing? It was a text message so not a big deal there, but regardless, I shouldn't care; the laughter just came out as a genuine reaction. I don't really want to analyze as I don't care but I am just a tiny bit interested in knowing, what's the hurry? It also sparked this update reaction in me.
I introduced my gf to my D yesterday. GF was really nervous beforehand but it went super well. Both my kids took her directly to play, D wanted to show things she had drawn etc. My kids are quite shy, but this went better than I could have ever expected. She has never been that quick in bonding and creating a relationship. I watched it while I was cooking dinner and it just strengthened my feelings towards gf.
Work has been great. I had to step out of my comfort zone as I created a tool that automates a huge portion of our work (the most boring copy-paste Excel-part) and had to keep a presentation for the higher-ups about it. I've had two bonuses already and people seem to praise my work effort. Hopefully this works as a stepping stone towards higher positions.
I hope the wait for holidays goes well for all of you. And if I'm not here before the next year, happy holidays and new year!
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
