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Originally Posted by SoTorn
D16 told me that in her IC session with WW, WW broke down crying and said she was "so sorry". D16 asked her for what and WW said "for everything ".
This happens a lot. Often when the LBS sees this they think the WAS has had a breakthrough and is experiencing remorse. That's not what it is though. It is just an outpouring of grief because she knows she's hurting everyone. BUT SHE STILL FEELS JUSTIFIED IN HER ACTIONS. That's the difference. Eventually she'll hit bottom and start feeling remorse, but not yet.