TF,

I honest to God hate this BS. In a way you are lucky to be going through it relatively young. IMO people mainly woman in MY experience just become unhappy in their 40s.

I have a friend moving in with me for awhile next Monday because his W is "trying to find herself". I am going to be helping him to DB from a live standpoint. The worst part is I have known her for 25 years and she is clearly unhappy with herself but of course she thinks he's the reason.