I get what your saying about being BFs since high school but you have to remember that she has committed the ultimate betrayal against you.
IMO you need to start treating her more like a business partner.
Research shows that spouses most likely have been thinking D for 3-5 years prior and the nail in the coffin was OMs availability.
This is like a cancer. You get it, but you don't know when you got it or really how long. If it is really is that long ago then probably after the birth of S3 when she suffered (still suffers) PTSD from almost dying. After S3 I think from her own perspective life got tough for her. Still could have been the same month she BD. She is kind of a nutjob now so who knows.
As you guys all say time apart cures all. Time apart will wash away any neediness I have for her. I want a R with W or any good woman. I don't NEED a R.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
