You reacted fine, and this is really on her. Don't take ownership of her emotions and reactions.
Don't follow up. That is just pursuit on your part.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019