Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage

[SoTorn]

WS's project all of their negatives onto the LBS. This is to be expected, so handle it calmly.

I felt like you were maybe puppeteering the children, so just make sure you aren't. I don't know if you were or weren't, but just be careful. Be the sane one at all times.

Also, use less words in responding to her.

I'm not puppeteering the kids. I'm just spending time with them. Please understand that along with ignoring me for 1.5 years, she did the same to the kids. So they talk about her to me a lot. I stay out of the meat of what's happening. I just tell them that we both love them and that we will all be fine.

Also, I didn't just start taking my kids out. This is a normal thing for me. I have been the only parent home 100% of the time while WW travels. So I'm always doing things with the kids.

I'm dark on WW. No contact and minimal words if speaking is necessary.

Kids are at school. Im going to run some errands.