11 months into S and I still can’t pull it together.
Yes you can. And you will make a decision and it will be left foot right foot on down the line. You make that decision that you will be happy and you will let go of her. You move on and that's that. It's tough, really tough. You can do it though.
As for DB'ing, quit showing her your emotion. Be upbeat at all times. Don't carry the overtly fake smile, but do what I did before I had to see my WW. Put both hands in the air and scream "YES!". Pump yourself up for a couple of minutes like you just hit a home run or got a huge promotion! That emotion and feeling will linger.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
