WS's project all of their negatives onto the LBS. This is to be expected, so handle it calmly.
I felt like you were maybe puppeteering the children, so just make sure you aren't. I don't know if you were or weren't, but just be careful. Be the sane one at all times.
Also, use less words in responding to her.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.