How much time is he spending with this mom these days? Does he go live with her on a regular basis?

Sia - thanks for you kind words and support. Unfortunately S still refuses to acknowledge his mom. I'm pretty sure she still texts him (he hasn't mentioned it lately). I don't think he responds to her. Aside from the one time he went over to have dinner - he has never asked or mentioned spending time there. I am fully aware that a healthy R with W will help him heal. Again that is when he feels fit and on his timeline. W texts me probably once a week to get updates on S. I try to keep it simple and positive. Next month S will be playing at his Christmas concert- again he requests that W not come. Not much I can do except give him all the love and support I can. Anyways I need to keep my PMA. With Love to all- Blessings!


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18