Sara, its so good to hear your update. At least some children are able to keep their families intact. All the credit should go to you, I have read thru all your threads and know how difficult your H made it for you. he was completely out of control. Your persistent efforts made you pull through this. I am so happy for you and to read that both of you feel genuine love for each other and are able to put the mistakes of the past behind you and look forward to the future. Once he got back, did he continue to show remorse? Did you see slow consistent changes and improvements over a period of time before he actually showed his reformed self to you?